“Therefore encourage one another and
build each other up.” I Thessalonians 5:11a
This year’s
Christmas Eve service at Beach Cities Church was unbelievable! We had the most amazing time under a huge
tent at Newport Back Bay. The music and
celebration was so special. Pastor Kent
told a special story (kind of a Chicken Soup for the Soul kind of story) about
a young man who received a blue ribbon as an encouragement from an
employer. He was then asked to pass on
a ribbon to someone else and a final ribbon given to a third person. The ending was very powerful! We were then asked to do the same as a
congregation…pass on a ribbon with a word of encouragement to someone who’s
impacted our lives, with 2 additional ribbons to then be passed on by that
recipient.
It took me a
while to decide who I was giving that ribbon to. Honestly, I am blessed in my life to be able to think of MANY
people to whom I could have given that ribbon.
I just waited. Then, it hit
me. I gave it to a sixth grader at my
school who has come to test several of my struggling 2nd graders on their 1st grade site
words. He comes almost weekly. He brings a friend or two sometimes. He has NEVER told his teacher he does
this! I never even had him in my own
class…just for reading intervention. He
does it without looking for anything in return (except an occasional
Starburst). He is definitely not a
strong reader, and probably struggles with some of the words himself once in a
while, but he is faithful to come! A
few other boys dropped out of volunteering early on when they realized it
wasn’t anything super exciting. Aaron
kept coming.
I had encouraged
Aaron early on, explaining that I couldn’t test the kids every week but they
would make greater strides in reading with his help. I also told him how much the students would grow to like him and
look forward to him coming. He rarely
misses! And guess what…these kids are
growing leaps and bounds in their reading.
It was the greatest gift to explain in front of our class what the blue
ribbon represented and why he was getting it.
This picture shows just a few of the kids he’s been reading with. I’ve never seen this young man glow like he
did when I honored him in front of the class.
The kids working with him were so proud as well. It was one of the greatest highlights in my
21 years of teaching.
I am so reminded
of the power of encouragement through this challenge. I am also starting a new challenge for myself in the classroom
that will hopefully impact every kid every day. Here it is:
Give every kid a compliment every day!
Give every kid a compliment every day!
This will be my motto for 2016..and probably for every class
every year. I am excited to see what
happens in Room 28 for the remainder of the year.